Real people · intentional dates

Find your rhythm.

Skip the endless swipe. Set when you're free, meet someone who's free too, and start with a real FaceTime-like date in a scene you choose.

Free to join · 18+ only · Real people, not endless profiles

Other apps keep you talking. Set&Seek gets you to the date.

Swiping apps make matching the goal. Matching is just the start on Set&Seek — the real goal is a confirmed evening with someone who's already free.

Other dating apps

  • Match first, then hope the conversation goes somewhere
  • Endless swiping with no real plan to meet
  • "Want to hang out?" with no time or place attached
  • Messages from anyone, even people you aren't free to see

Set&Seek

  • Post the nights you're free before anyone sees you
  • Only see people who are free at the exact same time
  • One yes confirms the date, the scene, and the time
  • Chat and video open only after the date is locked in
Set your first eveningTakes a minute · you can clear a time whenever you want

Set your evening

Pick a night and a scene. That's your invitation — no small talk required.

See who's free

Real members, closest first, who are free the same evening as you.

Meet on video

Both say yes and the date opens: real camera, real voice, your scene behind you.

Safer than meeting a stranger

The first date happens on video, from wherever you are. No address, no phone number, no pressure. End a date any time, and blocking and reporting are one tap away.

How we keep dates safe

Your next evening is already out there

Join free, set one time, and see who's free with you.